It took me a while to get myself back together 7 weeks after delivery weighing 89kg from my normal 58kg. Unable to exercise myself as I wanted due to cesarean delivery.
I understand how you feel mums, looking at the mirror and saying to your self when will I fit into this my lovely top,dress or just a pair of skinny jeans again. Its just a matter of time and patience.
The best thing is not to forgo the maternity wears you used during your second trimester as long as they are fashion forward for the time being before you loose all the baby weight. If you really desire to put on a fitted wear just make sure you use a beautiful belt to hide those fats around the waist area and to give you a sexy and curvy look.
Breastfeeding mums don't feel embarrassed with that excessive breast of yours you can still put on fitted tops, shirts and blouses as long as you have a flowing skirt, flare trousers to go with it. Am not their yet still have almost 15 kg left to get to 60kg that I desire but that does not stop me from looking and dressing very nice.